How Do I Grieve the End of My Marriage?

The papers are signed, the house is on the market and people have mostly stopped asking. The one who left wonder if they are allowed to be this sad. Or perhaps you are still going over what went wrong, late at night, like a case you have not finished arguing. This post is about why the mind is so often where divorce grief gets stuck, and why the sadness you have been keeping at a distance may be the way through it.